Introducing: The Timid Traveler...
As you read this, I will be in Europe. First a few days by myself in Paris, then a train ride to Brussels, where I will join my favorite travel company for a jaunt through Belgium and the Netherlands. Some people, especially my mother, can’t believe that I am willing to travel alone. They think I’m half-brave, half-crazy. Of course, my mother is convinced that danger lurks at every turn.
It amuses me that they think I’m bold. Solo travel is common these days; in fact, some of my friends prefer it. I’m inspired by Linda Ellerbee, who travels alone; her partner feels that he’s done his share, and sends her off with a kiss. She’s not ready to stop quite yet, so she sets out, according to her whim. Her book, Take Big Bites: Adventures Around the World and Across the Table, is one of my favorites; she writes of her independent travels, and the food from each destination. Now, she’s my role model for bold!
How I wish I could be like Ellerbee! Sigh. Here’s my confession: I am a Timid Traveler. There are quite a few of us out there. Make no mistake, we Timid Travelers are not stupid, cheap, or willing to compromise our enthusiasm for exploring the world. We simply approach travel in a different way. We like to be secure at the outset.
We come to be Timid Travelers by different paths. I happen to be widowed, without a simpatico companion. Others might be likewise single, whatever the circumstances, and learning to navigate solo. Some have medical or physical restrictions. Some are low-key people. Some are simply new to travel. And, yes, some are simply shy.
But we all have three things in common: First, we refuse to stay home. Second, we have a passion for experience, exploration, and learning. Third, you won’t ever, ever find us jumping up to lead a Conga Line.
Generally, we Timid Travelers like to plan a little more on the front end. It’s part of the fun, and gives us confidence. We like to know how to get to our hotel, the best way to get around, when the museums open, and a couple of places to find food. Want to make us twitchy? Suggest we arrive in a new city without a reservation.
Speaking for myself, once I have a few basics under my belt, I relax. Now, I'm feeling secure, and I’m able to deviate from previous plans, and explore. If this Timid Traveler has shelter, food, and transportation figured out…stand back!
On one of my previous trips, someone remarked that I explored like a dog: setting out in small circles, expanding my range, and once I knew my way back “home,” I was free to wander. I’d never thought that being compared to a dog would be a good thing, but this is an accurate description of my travel pattern. As a single traveler, it has served me well. I’ve used my Timid Traveler Techniques in London, Florence, Rome, and Istanbul. I don’t anticipate changing without good reason.
There are guides and articles for other travel styles. Upscale, budget, adventure, eco, family: all have niches and devotees. But no one speaks for the Timid Traveler. Until now. I’ll let you know how it goes.
I was all set to join you in the Timid Traveler group but must confess that I've been known to lead the Conga Line.
Posted by: Ginna | 09/07/2009 at 02:49 AM